We do say goodbye to things we love the most, don’t we?
No matter how long we have been attached to things we love the most, eventually they’ll be taken away from us in one way or another … Right?
I am struggling to convince myself over the above statements today. I am struggling to believe that you only part with the physicality of things.
You never say goodbye to memories they bring.
Last night, my iPod Classic died. For good.
Attempts of resurrection showed no signs of success. At all.
Even if we could replace the hard disk inside the iPod with a new one, it’ll be a new, blank, clean, empty hard disk. The old dying one, that caused the hardware to stop functioning, cannot be brought back to life.
After 8 years, my companion is no longer able to accompany me anymore.
This iPod of mine is a life companion.
Inside the 120gb disk space are not only songs, videos and photos accumulated over years. But more than that, those songs, videos and photos mark special milestones in my life.
Songs are compiled into playlists for running, so I can endure the exercise.
Songs I listen to whenever I have a crush on someone, when relationships end, and when romance starts to blossoms, are compiled into playlists.
There are playlists for wedding of friends, relatives, rainy days, holidays, and sometimes moments I need to celebrate quietly.
I always brought my iPod wherever I go. Be it to office, to gym, traveling overseas, other cities in the country, there was always my iPod present. In short, it never left out of sight everyday in the past 8 years.
When you have something with you for considerable amount of time, your subconsciousness forms a sort of attachment. So I read somewhere.
I never understand that, until now.
People have different ways to claim ownership or attach themselves over other people and things. Some form undying attention to their pets, others dot on their children. Some become too protective, some can be carefree.
I spent most of life on my own. The past 8 years saw a fair share of some romantic relationships, but for the largest bulk of time, I’m on my own. Thus, to fill the emptiness of dead air, I listen to music. I pay attention to them. My mind wanders as I press the button, click the wheel, put songs on shuffle, and let whatever songs played to fill the mood of the moment.
From what is a usual “press play” activity, it further develops as the extension of your feeling.
It may sound too much. That’s fine. After all, each one of us is wired differently.
When I lament the passing of this iPod to my friends, some immediately offer their consolation in understanding. Some went through the same. Some offer their confusion, to my absolute and definite understanding, as they don’t form similar attachment the way I do. And that’s fine by me.
After all, music speaks differently to each and everyone of us.
Soon enough, I’ll get a new portable music player. Or I may just get a new hard disk to be installed in the old iPod. I have not decided which route I’ll take.
Regardless, they mean the same thing. I may get majority of old songs and albums back, thanks to iTunes store and other outlets. I may be able to create similar playlists to the old ones.
But I never get the old memory back. I will never be able to recreate the exact mood while making the playlists.
Consider this is goodbye. Consider this is a farewell letter to the past 8 years of my life as marked on songs of life.
I often smile in tears upon realizing how we mark moments in our life by songs. Songs we listen to while we think of someone with love. How we are angry at the same person weeks or months or years later. Songs we listen to when we graduate. Songs we listen to as we travel in foreign lands.
I used to be able just to switch on the old iPod, scroll through playlists to figure out the songs that mark those special moments. Now, I won’t be able to do that anymore. I may remember all of a sudden whenever I hear the same songs in mall, as I stroll along foreign lands I am yet to visit, or in any given occasions later.
I will remember, because memory never escapes and fails us.
We say goodbye to things.
But we will remember the historic memory they lovingly create.
Here’s to new memories ahead.
01/05/2016 at 9:26 pm
It strucked me a little bit when I read ur title. I’m in the process of moving again to a (not so) new place. It’s time to adjust again.
I’m sorry for your loss…
01/05/2016 at 9:45 pm
Thanks. Where will you be at?
01/05/2016 at 9:47 pm
Not sure yet… Bangkok, Singapore, Bali or Jakarta. Temporarily on holiday… hahaha
01/05/2016 at 9:49 pm
That explains the lack of new post in your blog.
01/05/2016 at 9:50 pm
Hahaha… i need to finish everything finely in my real life… ada juga all writings are half baked, half done
01/05/2016 at 9:48 pm
Until further notice
01/05/2016 at 10:16 pm
Deep condolence for your lost. I feel you, my I listen to music awfully lot too.
But those songs do not belong to me. While the memories, I always carry it inside my self.
01/05/2016 at 10:21 pm
Thanks. And you’re right.