What’s A Marriage To You?

21 Jun

from a conversation with two women in their mid-20’s who soon are going to attend another friend’s lavish wedding, and all of them happen to be my dear darling friends, it is decided that:

a marriage is a state of mind.

regardless your age, your mind-blowing independence, your financial security, or your maniacal family intrusion, you’ll never be able to force a marriage into you, unless your mind says “i do.”


peer pressure? now that’s something.

what’s your take?


Posted by on 06/21/2006 in English, Personal


5 responses to “What’s A Marriage To You?

  1. Papigiulio

    06/22/2006 at 1:48 am

    Marriage is overrated. I hate weddings and funerals so…..No wedding for me anytime soon……Nor kids….nor a girlfriend… screw that last one… πŸ˜›

  2. mutiara nauli pohan

    06/22/2006 at 7:51 am

    klo aku bismillah aja valmohon doanya yah πŸ™‚

  3. w-nie

    06/22/2006 at 12:51 pm

    Is this a mere coincidence that your blog this time has the exact same theme as mine 2 days ago? Or is it a sign that we still have the so-called “telepati”?Well, for me, marriage is not about how fast you find your other half; it’s about how long you spend the rest of your life with your other half. πŸ˜‰

  4. Nauval!

    06/23/2006 at 3:21 pm

    PAPI,here’s the thing. you don’t need a girlfriend or a lover to get married. how’s that? :)ULI,amin!W-NIE,and what have we done, spending a lifetime finding our other half only to spend a limited time? πŸ™‚

  5. dodY

    06/30/2006 at 3:17 pm

    pernikahan bukanlah suatu prestasi yang mesti dikejar! seperti kata ayu utami:menikah itu baik…… untuk orang lain πŸ™‚


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